Many people first met Islam as pressure. Rules came first. Reasons came later or never arrived. Family honor stood in for argument. Fear stood in for formation. When those people grow older, they often reject the whole package and feel that they have finally chosen for themselves. The impulse is understandable. Coercion disfigures religion.
It still does not follow that Islam itself has been examined. A person can reject an imposed version of the faith and still never have encountered its intellectual and spiritual heart. The Quran itself rejects compulsion in religion. That matters here because it means the coercive formation was already in tension with the thing it claimed to defend.
The responsible next step is rediscovery. Strip away the pressure, then examine the claim again: God, revelation, prophethood, the Quran, the moral order. Islam should be accepted by understanding and sincere recognition, not by inherited force. A faith rediscovered freely is stronger, more truthful, and more worthy of the God who sees the heart.